Mixing different cultures can cause a head explosion. But with these tips you will always know what to do with your regular bed companion made in France. Nahh, just kidding, but it would be nice if life worked that way! Enjoy my article, I tried my best!
By the way, I didn't go on a date with every man of a french population and also, I am really bad at statistics, so just keep in mind that these points may and may not apply on some french fellas.
By the way, I didn't go on a date with every man of a french population and also, I am really bad at statistics, so just keep in mind that these points may and may not apply on some french fellas.
1. WRITE HIM POETRY
Even if your french-written love poems suck balls from the general perspective, your guy will love it! Even more than that, depending on his being in-love level, he will consider it among the highest pieces of art ever made and as the world peak of symbolic self-expression.
SIDE NOTE: You should take this blind praise just about as serious for it to be able to boost your confidence, but at the same time keep in mind that a tree had to die for you to write this bullshit down.
Even if your french-written love poems suck balls from the general perspective, your guy will love it! Even more than that, depending on his being in-love level, he will consider it among the highest pieces of art ever made and as the world peak of symbolic self-expression.
SIDE NOTE: You should take this blind praise just about as serious for it to be able to boost your confidence, but at the same time keep in mind that a tree had to die for you to write this bullshit down.
2. LET HIM KISS YOU IN THE STREETS
Even if you are not looking for a relationship material, and you have already (a few times) communicated this to your lovely lover, just let him do this. French guys like to show to other french guys that they have you, and that you are exclusive. To them, naturally. (Of course you are!)
Even if you are not looking for a relationship material, and you have already (a few times) communicated this to your lovely lover, just let him do this. French guys like to show to other french guys that they have you, and that you are exclusive. To them, naturally. (Of course you are!)
3. DON’T GET MAD IF HE JUST RANDOMLY SHOWS UP IN FRONT OF YOUR DOOR…
Okay, I don’t know if this is just my experience and the fact that I live on the ground floor, BUT this can be sometimes pretty disturbing. What are we, the 90’s? You can use your phone, too, I bet you have one! Because nothing is more delightful than having someone over when you didn’t take a shower in three days. Or when you need to take a shit. Or when you are expecting another cute black-haired french guy over. Or… I’ll stop there.
Okay, I don’t know if this is just my experience and the fact that I live on the ground floor, BUT this can be sometimes pretty disturbing. What are we, the 90’s? You can use your phone, too, I bet you have one! Because nothing is more delightful than having someone over when you didn’t take a shower in three days. Or when you need to take a shit. Or when you are expecting another cute black-haired french guy over. Or… I’ll stop there.
4. ...OR IF HE CALLS YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY YOU DON’T SEE EACH OTHER
One of the qualities french guys have in common, is that they don’t mind showing their interest in you, if there is one. And I mean, from the beginning.The famous phrase: ‘If a woman says no, she means yes’ is not underestimated here, but at the same time the french are distinguished enough to know when to stop (sometimes this doesn’t apply when the guy has moroccan roots). For a girl from eastern europe, where men are more or less reserved about it, it is rather one of those things that leaves an impression. So rather than questioning the frequency of his calls/visits, give him some credit for not being a cold fish. He just misses you, that’s all. He just wants to be with you, because you are the beautiful foreigner with an unpronounceable name that everybody tries to hit! How cool is that? (I think it’s cool…)
One of the qualities french guys have in common, is that they don’t mind showing their interest in you, if there is one. And I mean, from the beginning.The famous phrase: ‘If a woman says no, she means yes’ is not underestimated here, but at the same time the french are distinguished enough to know when to stop (sometimes this doesn’t apply when the guy has moroccan roots). For a girl from eastern europe, where men are more or less reserved about it, it is rather one of those things that leaves an impression. So rather than questioning the frequency of his calls/visits, give him some credit for not being a cold fish. He just misses you, that’s all. He just wants to be with you, because you are the beautiful foreigner with an unpronounceable name that everybody tries to hit! How cool is that? (I think it’s cool…)
5. THERE IS NO REASON ACTING RESERVED WHEN HE ASKS YOU TO MEET HIS PARENTS
French guys don’t take this step as seriously as in some other countries. It’s not like you are going to get married. After all, it’s just his parents. If you accept to meet them, it will only show you are interested in him and he will adore you for it.
French guys don’t take this step as seriously as in some other countries. It’s not like you are going to get married. After all, it’s just his parents. If you accept to meet them, it will only show you are interested in him and he will adore you for it.
6. AND FINALLY, BE YOUR OWN ORIGINAL
The best part about being a stranger in another country is that you can actually be strange, too and nobody will question your saneness. Why? Because you can say, that this is part of your culture (Even if it really isn't. But what do they know, right?!). You do that from where you come from! Yes, we piss into the sink sometimes. Yes, we almost always cook naked! In our country, there is no such term as: “sexual monogamy”. In our country, it is not rude to kick people out of your apartment when you want to sleep. The biggest sign of our love is when we let someone clean our room entirely, because that means we trust that person unconditionally. Great! Isn’t this what you always wanted? AMAZING.
The best part about being a stranger in another country is that you can actually be strange, too and nobody will question your saneness. Why? Because you can say, that this is part of your culture (Even if it really isn't. But what do they know, right?!). You do that from where you come from! Yes, we piss into the sink sometimes. Yes, we almost always cook naked! In our country, there is no such term as: “sexual monogamy”. In our country, it is not rude to kick people out of your apartment when you want to sleep. The biggest sign of our love is when we let someone clean our room entirely, because that means we trust that person unconditionally. Great! Isn’t this what you always wanted? AMAZING.
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